Family Drama : My Estranged Sister

I told you all that I wouldn’t talk about the drama surrounding my estranged relationship with my sister. It breaks my heart that I’ve had to block her on instagram. The lies she has been telling her friends is beyond more than I can forgive. Firstly she’s been claiming I’ve lied about our heritage. That is far from the truth. I would send her the family tree if she asked. Courtney has never asked - so I’ve never sent it her. I found it saddening and sickening that she’s told her friends that I am ungrateful for my adopted family. That is unfair to spread around and very untrue. I have always had a more difficult relationship with them. Can you really blame me for wanting a relationship with my adopted family and my birth family? They have both helped me become the women I am today in different ways. This doesn’t mean I’m ungrateful. I’ve never been the best daughter or sister but I try my best. I’ve had to work through a lot of demons to get to this stage I am at today. One of the demons I had to deal with was accepting my body. For years I hated the way I look. It took for me to meet my husband for me to accept myself as I am. Courtney’s accusations of me being unhappy with how I look is untrue. I don’t want her body. The problem I’ve got with her antics is her taking her clothes off to get instagram likes. As a gypsy this is frowned upon. She’s a pretty girl and doesn’t need to do that. Courtney has truly overstepped the line. Whilst I’d love to kick her ass for spreading lies- she’s still my little sister. I’d be cordial if I bumped into her at our adopted parents house. Being cordial to her doesn’t mean I’ve forgiven or forgotten what she’s done. I’ve had enough of her lies. If you come at me believing her lies I’ll block y. I don’t mind answering questions but don’t be rude or mean about it. Courtney may be hell bent on being childish in this situation but I’ll ignore her now. I’m not going to lie it’s sad to think that any children we may have may not grow up together. It is what it is. She doesn’t want me as her sister and I have to get on with it. I’ll get over her lies but it’ll take time. Life goes on